Hubby is now giving 5 days a week to the cult. They see more of him while he is awake than I do. When he is home he is either sleeping or in his office on his computer. Yes I spend a lot of time on my tablet, but when he does come into the bedroom I put my tablet up. I watch a lot of tv to get through the day. I know I will never get him out. I believe very little of what he says anymore. I am now having bad dreams that he wants to know about. Why should I tell him. All he will do is dismiss them along with my feelings, telling me they arn't real. I give up.