rebel8 - I read over your post about the pressures of gift-giving and I agree. I never enjoyed the competitive spirit at Christmas and I didn't enjoy the feeling that my presents to others weren't good enough or weren't right in some important way. I got rebellious -- we all have too much stuff anyway, we don't need more. Here, have some jam and some good sweet bread, and if that isn't enough, well, you're out of luck.