She threw you under the bridge and put the guilt that she imposed and instigated herself onto you.
She played the innocent naive one who got persuaded into committing sexual acts by an over sexed adolescent male.
In most social environments of religion, males are mostly seen as the dominating sexual aggressor, while females are less
perceived that way.
If this was her first time of this matter coming to elders about herself, the elders most likely believed her
and went more after you, this is easily to be seen and understood.
Well yes girls will try to play the innocent role for the sake of making themselves less guilty of their actions
and when it comes to sexual activities, the stupid elders will place the guilt more so onto males,
probably because they are males themselves and most sexual improprieties result from male aggressiveness.
Religion is mostly made up of a profusion of pretentiousness within the body of the organization itself as well among
its devoted adherents and because of this reality is always undeniably obscured.
.......and people unfortunately do get hurt because of this.