EOM said-
So does the particle know if the record button is on or not or does the expectation of an individuals mind who hits the record button make the particle act as would be logical to them?
You're accepting the woo presented in the YouTube video, where there's pure fantasy inserted into the real experiment, taking it WAY beyond what experiment found.
Photons cannot 'think', or 'know': as SNR said above, it's utter nonsense to use that kind of language in regard to the behavior of photons. Photons don't exist as sentient beings no more than Gods do, and whether anyone SIMPLY wants them to (or doesn't want them to) exist has no bearing on REALITY.
EOM said- If our minds 'faith', assured expectation, using just 5% of our mind can manipulate something so tiny the naked eye can't see, then does that open the possibility of using more of our minds making it capable of doing greater things. Also if our thought or expectation makes the particle act that way, then that could open up for some scientific logic of how God can 'will' and 'think' things into existence. His thoughts could do on a much grander scale what ours did.
Great, you've devised a hypothesis, and came up with a pseudo-intellectual argument to support it which may impress weak-minded individuals.
Now, devise an experiment that'll support it, and then we'll talk. Until then, you've got only another permutation of a fantasy which many have failed to demonstrate (and it's not from lack of trying!), which needs evidence before a skeptic is going to accept the idea as anything but an attempt at Walter Mitty's wish fulfillment....