I have thoroughly enjoyed the discussion thank you to all who took part - with the exception of the facile comments from Tammy and FHN.
Just to be clear, my point has never been - Tsunami. Therefore there is not god.
It started off as an account of an actual conversation. Thank you to Besty for bringing it back to the topic.
God's inaction on Boxing Day morning 2004 raises a question for theism. An almighty, all knowing, loving god passively observed a disaster that needlessly took the lives of a quarter of a million people. doofdaddy has given us a first-hand account of the reality of the suffering that followed. How can these facts be reconciled?
Pastor John offered 6 possible answers and others have offered another 11 in this thread. When I get a minute I will post a summary.
Some of the answers have blamed the victim, some have surrendered the concept of a loving god, others have given up the power of god, many have tirvialised the suffering.
All have failed so far. If anybody has a new insight please share. None of us want to be wrong any longer than necessary.