Leander, good call bro! You'll have to be vigilant though, even the slow fade can be tricky. They will come around when you are not expecting them, they will tug at your heart strings. Just explain that you have some personal issues that you may discuss when your ready. Eventually it will slow and then stop.
I have REALLY enjoyed your posts. You and I are the same age, we have a lot in common. I'm only about 6 mos. ahead of you in my exit. Main difference-- my wife is with me on this. What the future holds for you? Who knows? But you will be in the drivers seat for the first time. Enjoy your freedom. Give the Mrs. some time, she may suprise you! But whatever happens, at least you'll have ownwership in YOUR life. Rock on Leander!