snowbird:
The scenario you mentioned above is going to become increasingly common in that religion. (In your case, I am glad you paid into S.S.)
However, helping a blood relative is something some might do (depending, of course, on how they were treated by the relative). Others who were treated abominably might understandably say "No" and tell the relative to take a hike..............The hypocrisy in the religion is sky high and, with their selective memory loss, they imagine people who were criticized for getting college and careers should now "help" everybody with their hand out.
This is not going to go over very well with a lot of people there who may have been criticized for working and I know the feeling.
I am glad I am out of the religion because I would end up being rude if they cornered me asking for money!.......It was bad enough I ran from users who tried to target me to do favors.....This latest thing would be the last straw! I could not be polite to these hypocrites! I am sure they are in full-on desperation mode and have their eyes on anybody there who is barely holding onto their job.
The hard-luck stories and appeals for money must be endless! This is not an environment that anybody would want to be around.