Nothing! Friendships are conditional. You don't even need to be df'd to be dropped by good friends. Just move congregations and they forget all about you-- even if you try to stay in contact!
Service was a pointless waste of time. Most of the pioneers I knew just shoved magazines in ppls faces. There was hardly any dialogue with householders!
The brothers were a bunch of sexist jerks. The few male friends I had in the congregation had some semblance of being rational about how to treat and think about the opposite sex. Otherwise, I was dealing with an 19th century mentality!
About the only thing I miss are the dinner parties I had. I love havingcompany and cooking for good friends. Right now,i'm busytrying to put together a group of friends to make that happen.