Thanks for sharing your experience!
Something you said rang true for me....
Since I "chilled out" after learning TTATT, I have been less stressed over pleasing everyone else and eye service. Hence I have treated my wife far more respectfully and have expected less from her with theocratic activities.
We hardly ever have a disagreement over things, we treat other with more respect.
So to those who say that only witnesses have a happy family life, I say bs.