I have a friend. She is nearly 100 years old. She was a missionary to Cuba. She is very nice and very intelligent. Way smarter than I ever was.
She has 2 children around my age. Those smart kids woke up and left WT decades ago. I called her less than 7 years ago and asked her how her children were and if they have come back to meetings. She said No. I, at that time still a drone, could not imagine why my old friends would leave the Israelite God of War, YHWH. She just said, they don't love Jehovah anymore and there is nothing I can do about it. I said, maybe they need therapy or maybe they were brainwashed with apostate literature or something. She said, "I don't know" and then offered for me to come and go in service with her or come over later in the afternoon, when she would be home and have a rootbeer float with her. I loved her and her whole family dearly. I've known them forever. I have looked her 2 children up on FaceBook , left a hello message, they have not replied back to me. They both have married, had children, good educations and jobs. Maybe I represent the past which they would rather forget.
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