Some good advice here -- discuss with your parents what your options are, check out homeless shelters, find out whether there are services for people your age in your area. If you are a minor, find out whether there are child protective services that might help you. Breathe, keep calm, do your research.
Getting kicked out.
by bobert 23 Replies latest jw friends
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baltar447
And they wonder why we're "such bitter apostates"! Shit like this makes my blood boil.
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villagegirl
He is a minor or his parents would not be responsible for him.
Apply to UBC if you are in Vancouver, or any college and live in
the dorms on help from your parents, grants, work-study, and
loans, immerse yourself in a different world of exploration, whether
it be the sciences or the arts or any field that interests you, just
devote yourself full time, into another kind of community. All of this
will fall away from you as you see the whole universe from a different
perspective and work on developing yout gifts. Its your only hope.
Don't let the WT cause you to bury your "talents" in the ground.
Thats what they do best, annihilate postive growth. Call university
housing, go for an interview, get information on campus housing,
pack your bags and go.
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jam
Bobert you must tell us how old are you, that makes
a big difference.
A situation in our family and I'm sure in many families today,
adults living at home with their parents.
My nephew by marriage (he married my niece) called me
the other day and ask me to talk to my niece son. They have
been married for 4 years and my niece son have been living with
them fro 4 years. My great nephew is 27 years old and have a
two year old son. You get the picture..
I know it's difficult out there when you have limited funds, but tell
you folks you need time to save money...
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DesirousOfChange
HOW MANY TIME WAS HE ASKED HIS AGE?
DID HE EVER SAY?
I DON'T THINK SO.
This doesn't jive with his previous post where he was already planning to move out.
What the. . . . .?
Doc
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villagegirl
People who think they "need time to save money" end up working
for ten to twenty years trying to save money, because without
education you cannot find work that will pay any more than hand to mouth
wages. If you are young, between 17- 23 - get into a college, get into
campus housing. In California community colleges are practically free,
get grants , get loans, but don;t put it off, you will get stuck if you do.
Single, young people of average intelligence can do this.
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DesirousOfChange
VILLAGE GIRL: If you are young, between 17- 23 - get into a college, get into campus housing. In California community colleges are practically free, get grants , get loans, but don;t put it off, you will get stuck if you do. Single, young people of average intelligence can do this.
Great advice!
Even if you're over 23. Then esp good advice to get your butt outta the house.
Doc
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truth_b_known
Are you old enough to enlist in the military?
My only regret in life is that I did not join the military when I was young. I came close after high school graduation, but I was in to deep in the organization.
On top of having all of life's necessities provided, you can learn skills and trades marketable in the private sector. On top of it all it sends a powerful message to Jehovah's Witnesses.
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MissFit
Truth be known: on the con side: he could go to war and get killed or maimed...Just saying.
Miss.Fit
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Finkelstein
Are you an adult? If you're a minor you should seek legal advice. If you're not causing problems I'm sure they cannot kick you out just because you don't want to follow their religion. Remember you have freedom to choose your religion. It's a basic human right.
Good advise right there
They cant legally kick you out if your a minor under the age of 19 I believe. I'm a Canadian living in Vancouver
Talk to a social worker in your community about your situation noting that most of the push is coming from the fact that your not willing to be involved with your parents/guardian's religion.
Gather up information as much as you can for your own piece of mind and to enlighten your parents to their own legal responsibility.
Keep your behavior clean, no drugs, smoking, sexual misconduct . etc.
This is going to play in your favor in many ways now and into the future.
Its easy to be go off on a rebellious tangent your age most teenagers do.