I figured I should provide an update on the young woman that began working for us a while back.
Well she is no longer with her husband, they are not officially divorced but they have been seperated for quite a while now.
She moved to Colorado and still works for us remotely. We are pretty good friends and whenever we travel we stop in to see her and she is doing very well.
She has not been to a meeting in a very longtime and has no intention of returning because she was well aware of its foolishness many years ago but never took the appropriate steps. She still speaks to my wife on nearly a daily basis and they exchange purses etc... via mail LOL.
Her husband has moved out of the area and no one is fully aware of exactly where he is at. Which is probably good.