Had a vacation planned for August, but got the rug pulled out from under my feet. Hubby said he wanted to go in September, but gave me no reason. I finally told him I knew he had to pioneer in August. Told him this was going to be historic and there are 5 Saturdays and 5 Sundays in August. He said he would be happy to take me Sept. 1st. This life sucks and I am really tired of it, I have bent over backwards for him and this is what I get. Really want to know how many JW's have had to cancel there vacation plans.
August vacations cancelled
by wandasoo 15 Replies latest watchtower beliefs
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Designer Stubble
30 hours of knocking on doors with nobody at home - as they are all on vacation.
It would actually be more effective to give some informal witnessing on your vacation address - not that people are waiting for that...
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leaving_quietly
It would have been great to have seen a collective, "hell, no!" from pioneers since August is their last month to get any sort of break. But, in true fashion, this religion is sucking the life out of even the ones who sacrifice the most.
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OneEyedJoe
It would have been great to have seen a collective, "hell, no!" from pioneers since August is their last month to get any sort of break. But, in true fashion, this religion is sucking the life out of even the ones who sacrifice the most.
Yeah, when they were going over it and got to that part I realized "that's why they're not doing this in september!" Afterall, september would make way more sense, with the "anniversary" in october. Plus, the weather would be nicer to boot.
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Oubliette
So "pioneering" is more important than your relationship!
Your hubby is obviously more concerned with what the congregation members think of him than he is with keeping you happy.
With all due respect, what a moron!
This is what happens when a cult steals your brain (aka: individuality, free-will and critical thinking processes).
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quellycatface
Tell him "tough" and go away on your own. He should be putting you first, not the sodding GB.
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out4good3
Tell him "tough" and go away on your own. He should be putting you first, not the sodding GB.
It took me doing this a couple of times before my wife finally got the point that I would no long live in the shadow of her beloved GB and the organization. She missed a couple of great trips to the west coast.
By the time I got around to scheduling Hawaii......she got the point REAL quick!!!!!
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wandasoo
out4good3, Sounds like a good idea might make some plans and go by myself. Sad part is we were going to visit family that we have not seen in 4 years. We have a wedding anniversay in August, I'm sure that will be put in the back burner too. Don't care at this point I don't want to celebrate with someone who really doesn't want to be with me. Only good to cook, clean, laundry and use my money. I'm done with all the crap. GB is first in his life. I told him if Jehovah and the bible tell you to pioneer in August then that's what you have to do. His reply, never said one word but had a big smile on his face.
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Witness My Fury
It sounds as though you'd be better off without him. Maybe hint as much and get him to make the choice between you or the cult.
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Mum
Take a vacation on your own! Lots of married women I know do that. Do you have some "worldly" friends who would like to get away and enjoy some relaxation? Call them!