Go ahead and meet them out! It is coffee and not a relationship.
Men love bomb for one thing so get above the compliments.
As long as you listen to love bombing,they say what they want to get what they want.
There are a lot weeds out there. Some men see internet as an opportunity: they love bomb 50 girls and one will go for it.
As far as more time from WT before you move on. You might be referring to your ex,
No such thing! But there is something about JW teaching about taking dating serious. Some odd way walking away from WT it does leave you vulnerable. Because, one might think the outside is just as serious and it far from it.
On the flip side maybe the society was right about certain things.
Recovery from a crap ex JW husband. If your going out there telling men your garbage in memory lane regarding why your divorced.
It means you need a women's group. Healthy men do not want to listen to it but men who love bomb will. Healthy men: want to fall in love and be valued just like you, and not be a therapist for dysfunctionals.
Read some dating books and do find a women's group.