The day I tell my wife that I am not going to the meetings, and I dont even fake sick, I just dont want to go.. Look out! She will ask why, and If I say because I cant sit through it anymore hearing falsehoods passed off as truth, she will involve my parents, the elders.. Everyone! At that point I need to have my ducks all in a row. I will need to make good arguments, not to win the elders over, but to show my wife I sincerly cannot do it anymore. You must be very good and careful with your words to avoid getting df for apostasy.
Just tell them you KNOW it is Jehovah's F&DS but from what it being preached you must question if Jehovah is testing them again with some apostates in high places. You know.......that has happened in the past!!!! If what is being said conflicts with the Bible, then.......isn't that apostacy? But you know that Jehovah will correct it all in His time, just as he did with the Baal worshipping priests that had infiltrated in the days of Elijah. You are WAITING ON JEHOVAH to do that very thing. WAITING.
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