Hello, lurkernomore!
No. 1 best news, you've awakened to the realization that WT is a high control, mind controlling cult masquerading as a helpful and loving religion from God in heaven himself.
No. 2 best news, your wife sees it too!
I've been getting so much help from this forum, mostly reading but expressing myself as well. Very emotionally supportive, which is needed if you have spent any time at all being programmed by the WT. You're in a great place!
Best wishes for happy recovery,
Marina