by Batman89 21 Replies latest jw friends
I appreciate that you must be hurting...but as everyone has said...this was bound to happen soon anyway.
You cant be in a relationship with someone if your core belieifs are at odds with one another.
You will move on and find a close relationship with someone who will accept you for who YOU are and not who you are SUPPOSED to be....
Better now than when and if children were in the picture.
GO! Go enjoy a happy and successful life!
It's the greatest revenge!
Doc
It was the right decision for now. We don't know what the future will bring, but right now, it's wide open. I hope you are blessed and come to healthy and happy decisions for you (and I hope that she does too-she sounds like she is a nice young woman with some brights-you never know!)
Batman it was loving of you to set her free to pursue her own path. Breaking it off, the two of you have mutally given each other permission to go on with life as you both see fit.
This was an elegant, loving and wise decision.
thanks
What a shame for both of you. I'm so sorry.
Had my wife watch the Texas Line Dance Video at the Kingdom Hall on YouTube. I told her that JW's will do ANYTHING they are told is OK! Knorr and Franz would be spinning in their graves ........ if they had one.
My Point? It could be in time that JW's will finally adjust their views on shunning and associations etc. What a shame if she has second thoughts then. Like I said, it is just heartbreaking for two people who sound like they are really fine people. Wish you both only the best.
I do not intend this to give false hope, but I'm a hopeless optimist and just wonder if her KNOWING how much you love her will make her realise what a hard decision this was, and might therefore make her think about it more. You never know, she might ffollow you out. I hope so, and quickly..
I know it hurts, but having one person stay in the borg and the other get out causes lots of friction.
Children become a battleground...
Its takes a a set of big ones to do what you did. Although it may take a while to move on, you will. I only have one warning; Do not backslide! Resist all urges to conact her. Treat her as she is a drug you are going cold turkey on. The next few weeks are crucial.
Your situation is absolutely indicative of supernatural influential hocus pocus getting in the way of essential and beneficial humanistic and necessary feelings of love and caring.
I wish you a happy life...time is a wonderful healer I know.
