I'm interested in the Caleb video, smashing a vase while playing with his plane.
The lesson he gets from his father is that you mustn't lie because Jehovah doesn't want you to lie.
The lesson should be that you don't lie because it's a moral issue - deceiving people is wrong.
This will train kids to be told what is right and wrong, instead of train them to work out for themselves what is right and wrong.
Reminds me of that illustration where a mother asks her little one where is Jehovah and he points upwards.
One day they get visitors so she shows off her party trick and, in the kitchen, asks her little one where Jehovah is.
He runs into the living room and points at the ceiling fan.
Children should be trained to become independent, responsible adults, not dependents.