On another thread someone posted a list of inconsitencies in the Bible and I picked 2 at random and with just a little research found that in those cases there was no inconsistency . Atheists do use this argument a lot but do not seem to be willing to do the research for themselves to find the truth of the matter . The links that Perry has put will deal with many of these seeming contradictions .
If you do not believe that is up to you and as I have said before I am not here to try to convert anyone , but please if you are basing your unbelief on these old chestnuts do yourself a favour and do the work to find the facts . (Here I am tempted to say is this a hangover from the JW days when research was frowned upon , but clearly not because much research seems to have gone into other topics ) .
As to Christianity destroying a person's self confidence or feeling of self worth , maybe that point of view does come from Watchtower teaching because it seems to me that they push the earn your salvation type of religion and constantly seem to be saying to people "you are not good enough , you must do more " . My faith tells me that I am very precious in my maker's eyes and the opinion of anyone else does not matter . I do not even compare myself with other Christians , they have their path to follow . Yes, I have my faults from my sinful human nature but it is evident in everyone that no one is perfect, we ALL have our weaknesses and problems . If we are honest , just from a human standpoint , we must all admit that we are not perfect and no shame in that .
Jan