Many times I have felt like robbing a bank. I didn't because I stopped myself.
Many times I have felt like killing my brother because he is an idiot. I didn't because I stopped myself.
Many times I have felt like driving 100 miles per hour. I didn't because I stopped myself.
Many times I have seen a beautiful woman and desired to have sex with her. I didn't because I stopped myself.
Many times I have wanted to get dead drunk because life is hard. I don't because I stop myself.
All humans at all times have urges that are socially and morally unacceptable. To take human behavior and 'medicalize' it is irresponsible and removes the responsibilty for behavior from a 'person' and assigns it to a 'disorder'.
( I do agree with the writer of the article that a person wanting help for his urges toward children should be able to get that help without being viewed as a criminal if he has not acted on those urges.)