Have you watched the 4 min animated white board drawing video on jw.org called "what's a real friend?" (incorrect grammar too I see!)
It is one of the most hypocritical pieces they have produced!
It goes into detail explaining that real friends "don't judge you, dont talk about you behind your back, don't hold grudges, don't expect you to conform, and encourage individuality!"
Yep...that is what it says.....
Seriously...watch the clip if you want your head to explode from the double standards!