Lisa: When you use a phrase like "white privilege" then you are making racial judgements.
'Privilege' implies: authority, entitlement, freedom, license and/or right. It is a colorful word (no pun intended) which is why it is a bad word to use which is also why it is precisely the phrase that is used. It helps to incite people and make people angry on both sides - one side is insulted and the other is told that another group haa been given more than them because of their color and it's unfair. It would be, if it were true.
This sort of language feeds into the sense of injustice and animosity and is not constructive if the intention is to have a dialog.
If you want to insult people? Sure - go round accusing people of using their "white privilege" which many translate to "whitey gets more than us". It doesn't help any of the people that you claim to want to help.
If you take the antonyms for 'privilege' we would have counter phrases such as:
- "black disadvantage"
- "black handicap"
- "black misfortune"
- "black restriction"
Do you think those would be good phrases to use? Remember, they are just the opposite of "white privilege". I don't think they would fly - again, they are too judgemental and colorful and would be a distraction. The conversation would never get past the language used to start it as we've seen here.
This is why the choice of words and labels IS important if you want to make progress. Labels are particularly bad unless the words have very definite, clear, singular and precise meaning which very few do.
This is why I think it's better if we talked about "the unique challenges facing afican americans today" if that is indeed something that you think can and should be improved. If you object to that phrase then come up with a different one - just don't insist on using something that is misleading or that others may find unsulting.