I ran into an elder the other day at WalMart. He's a fairly good man and has a wife that is very sickly. So sickly in fact I don't know how she's holding on. They had an infant to die years and years ago, and both of their other children are disfellowshipped. So I asked him how his wife was doing and he went on and on about how she was bleeding here and there, (she's been doing this for years). I said "you know, it must be very psychologically hard on her to deal with the death of a child". He said "oh yes, oh yes", then I said "well it's just as hard to deal with the loss of her other children. We're going into hard times, and the family is very important. She needs to see those children". Woops, he forgot to pick up some produce he had overlooked. See ya.
When I see him again, I'm going to continue on with the nit-picking. I've been conjuring up in my mind what I can say to make him feel really guilty for mistreating those children for a "religion" or "a god". There should be no reason on the face of this earth to shun your children. If they are murderers or something, turn them in. Don't shun them. I'm inactive and they know why. (Their fault).