If parents have dealings with d/f family out of there home , they may not be in a judicial position but are really going against "The Slave"...
Also, do not blame others. Respect Jehovah’s arrangement for discipline. Take your stand against the Devil—not against shepherds who act to protect the congregation.— ...................
Do not look for excuses to associate with a disfellowshipped family member, for example, through e-mail. (1 Cor. 5:11)Wt 2013 1/15
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Loyal Christian family members do not look for excuses to have dealings with a disfellowshipped relative not living at home. Rather, loyalty to Jehovah and his organization moves them to uphold the Scriptural arrangement of disfellowshipping. Their loyal course has the best interests of the wrongdoer at heart and may help him to benefit from the discipline received.*—Hebrews 12:11.
"Keep Yourself In God's Love" p 209