JW CHILD ABUSE VICTIMS $$$$$$450,000

by crawdad2 23 Replies latest watchtower child-abuse

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  crawdad2

  are you a jw or exjw who is being abused, or has been?................ you have until you are 20yrs old, to report it, and sue for damages......... some lawyers suggest around $$$$450,000.......four hundred and fifty thousand US dollars............ because of all the damage they did to you..................... if you have all the facts, .........the names and places...........and it's all legit.............i suggest way more for damages......... to help correct the problem.

  there are some good lawyers on this site.

  Edited by - crawdad2 on 19 June 2002 23:49:26
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  Dutchie

  Hi Crawdad2:

  If you do have suffered molestation as a child and the statute of limitations has not run you may have a case. Obviously, you cannot just walk into a lawyers office and say I was molested years earlier and I heard I could get a pile of money for that. No, it doesnt work that way. You must have proof of molestation, which can be substantiated by hospital reports, doctors reports, psychiatric reports, therapists reports, police reports, as well as individuals that you may have told of this abuse. Therefore, consider the following:

  Did you advise your parents of the abuse?

  Did you advise anyone in the congregation of the abuse?

  Was the abuse reported to the elders?

  Did the elders in the congregation confront the molester?

  If a confrontation took place, did the molester admit the abuse?

  If a confrontation took place, did the molester deny the allegation against him?

  What did the elders recommend that you do as a result of the molestation?

  Were you advised that you could report this abuse to the authorities?

  Were you advised not to report this abuse to the authorities?

  If you were advised not to report the abuse, what was the reason given?

  Did you report the abuse to the police or other municipal authority?

  Did you see a physician as a result of the abuse?

  Did you see a psychiatrist as a result of the abuse?

  Did you see a therapist as a result of the abuse?

  Were you seen by a mental health specialist as a result of the abuse?

  If you can answer all of most the questions above in the affirmative, and you have written documentation from professionals as listed above, then you may be able to file a summons and complaint in a court of law and seek recovery of damages.

  Suggesting a monetary amount can be misleading because states differ, circumstances differ, juries differ.
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  crawdad2

  no, ,,,,,,,, you don't have to have hospital reports...........don't listen to dutchie.
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  ashitaka

  craw,

  I've noticed that you're a little unstable, although I dare say you have a reason to be.

  Perhaps you have a link or a phone number for a good counselor to post on the board? I think Dutchie was just being helpful Craw....take it easy....we're on your side here.

  ashi
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  Dutchie

  Crawdad: I'm just saying that hospital reports would be helpful, now wouldn't they? If you don't have them, there are other documentation that can be produced. Please stop screaming!
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  crawdad2

  dutchie,......... let's get one thing straight.........victims who come forward, have often "never been to a hospital or counseling facility".............. do we have this straight?

  Edited by - crawdad2 on 20 June 2002 1:29:44
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  Dutchie

  Thanks Crawdad2, I realize that there are different circumstances, but sometimes people have gone to counseling because of mental stress caused by the abuse and so those records would be valuable. All cases are different. There are no cookie-cutter circumstances. Some people have been to therapy and some people have not. Each case must be taken on its merit. I was just listing some of the documentation and writings that would be helpful. Thats all. I am sorry if I upset you in any way. I was just trying to help.

  Thank you for not screaming. I appreciate it

  Edited by - Dutchie on 20 June 2002 1:31:34
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  crawdad2

  thank you dutchie..
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  waiting

  gosh durn! Another flame war avoided by using some patience, tolerance, and a civility.

  Thank y'all for that...............and the good information by all sides.

  waiting
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  hawkaw

  cd2,

  I don't particularily like this thread.

  It seems you are eager for victims to sue and what a person MAY get as a settlement. These are personal decisions that should be discussed with legal counsel. Don't get me wrong - I am all for lawsuits as they tend to help get corporations to change their ways to protect children and help the victims financially.

  However, court cases are determined on a case by case basis in Tort Law - both determining and proving the negligence and standard of care and then determining the settlement, if any.

  I would urge all victims to seek good legal counsel who specialize in the field of child abuse and religious corporations. I would not necessarily recommend a single counsel and THAT includes Mr. J. Anderson. Remember legal counsel in the USA will charge a fee that may be up to 40 percent of the settlement if you win. In Canada you must put up the costs for the lawsuit (in most cases) and I assure that is not cheap.

  Above all else - these cases can take time and you must be willing to re-live the horror at disclosure and then again possibly in open trial subject to cross examination. I urge all to think long and hard about what they want to gain and I for one would support any steps or lack of steps that you, as a victim take.

  hawk