Thank you all so much!
Most of you seem to be in agreement..I need to take my time and see what happens.
As far as her illness goes..I do'nt know that much about her illnesses. I know that she said what ever they are giving her is making her swell up!
She seems very vulnerable right now..Idn't want to push her one way or anoter. I guess just listen to her and take it slow!
Thanks again to everyone...Golden Girl.