more tales of the abused

by littleangrypolishgirl 24 Replies latest jw experiences

  • outoftheorg
    outoftheorg

    HI LITTLE GIRL.

    Like others have expressed, i am saddened by thinking of how you must feel. The conduct of the elders you describe is no surprise to us. The hate they project towards those who disagree or challenge them is unbelieveable to those outside this org. Unfortunatly hate only begets hate from the victims also. Although it is fully justified on your part use it to destroy any lingering beliefs in the wbts and don't let it destroy you. The many people on this site have all experienced something similar. I found that using this site helped me a lot. Just knowing you are not alone in this is a big help. Keep in touch, ok?

  • Xandria
    Xandria

    Welcome to the Board... there are people here who have undergone the same types of abuses and suffered losses due to the Hateful Behavior and Zombie like obendience to WTS which over rides everything including family, compassion, etc. The people who are suppost to be our "brothers and sisters" that are to help us. Do the opposite of that and bring too much pain into people's lives. Too many have suffered and it is time for it to come out.

    Glad to meet you and I hope this forum is a place for you to find a way to vent, heal and help yourself and others.

    Xandria

  • bad_associashun
    bad_associashun

    hi lapg,

    very sad news indeed. many here can relate to how the hate is masqueraded as love in the wts.

    happy healing & recovery to you. cute name.

    badass/rachel

  • Dutchie
    Dutchie

    Welcome to the forum, Little. Your story is so sad and I wish to extend my condolences to you and your family on the loss of your beloved sister. I know that she remain forever alive in your heart and memories. I hope to hear more from you soon.

  • DakotaRed
    DakotaRed

    So sorry to hear about your sister, Little. Tales like this are so sad. It truly breaks my heart to hear when ones so young take their own lives and leave the rest of the family suffering.

    As for your Dad, I won't say anything. He reminds me of my own parents, but they weren't JWs. What I feel like saying about him might get the thread locked or deleted. And to think, ones like that are well respected within in the Org.

    Welcome to the forum, though. You have landed amongst some friends who are here to help and support you as needed.

    Lew W

  • Bang
    Bang

    Thank you for telling your story.

    Bang

  • SpiceItUp
    SpiceItUp

    ((((((((littleangrypolishgirl))))))))))

    Welcome to the board!!!

    From one polish girl to another. You are not alone and I hope this place helps you as much as it has helped me. Thank you for sharing your story.

    Spice

  • VioletAnai
    VioletAnai

    Welcome! That's very sad to hear LAPG....

    My thoughts are with you today.

  • LeslieV
    LeslieV

    Dear Little;

    My heart is breaking reading your story. I am so sorry that your sisters and mother had to experience this kind of abuse. I am so sad to read that your sister took her own life due to this abuse and lack of love from her parent.

    Welcome to this board there are many here that have experienced abuse from the borg. There is healing that can take place in sharing your pain, anger, sadness, and loss. You will have a listening ear here and people that care for you. Keep coming back.

    Leslie

  • waiting
    waiting

    Hey Girl,

    It's amazing how many of us have shortened your name in different ways........but whatever, welcome to a common family. We're all different - but many of us can acutely understand what you're speaking about.

    I'm so sorry for your family's trauma, and your sister's death. So devastating in any family; but sometimes in a jw family - the emotions are so twisted and tangled as to be unbelievable - to anyone but xjw's.

    Take care - and hope you stay around. You'll find a lot of variety of personalities and background ----and much similarity to your specific background, sorry to say.

    waiting

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