If he doesn't know the society's view of oral sex it is because nobody talks about this . The policy is that it is considered bad , but if you don't mention it, then so be it. If you say that you've practiced it, even if it is with your mate, then you are not exemplary.
oral sex
by lilpumpkin 28 Replies latest social relationships
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seawolf
oh uh...I have nothing to add either. I registered several months ago and never posted and thought this would be a good first topic to reply to.
please....carry on.
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ring
welcome to the board seawolf
I have nothing to add either
ring
-*quietly eating a lime*-
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onacruse
OK, all you voyeurs (LB, MrMoe, OOTO).
First, welcome LP, SW. You will find very frank discusions here. I, however, am beyond sexual fantasy (yeah, right).
WTS has had several reversals re: marital sexual behavior. Homosexuality was grounds for divorce, wasn't, now is. Bestiality was, wasn't, now is. Oral sex was, wasn't and now is (as I recall). Private confession of partner was, wasn't, and now is [you must submit a letter to cong]. If you are now doing any of these, you may be df'd (or not ri'd, assuming the elders ask, which they probably will, if only to stimulate themselves).
Assuming your interests are sincere, consider this: Hebrew has 2 primary words for prohibited sexual activity, zah-nah (=fornication) and nah-aph (=adultery). Greek also has 2: porneia (=fornication) and moixaw (=adultery) [These words have various prognate derivatives] All these words apply to sex with another human outside of marriage (See e.g. Vine's Dictionary of New Testament Words). You can consult any Hebrew and Greek concordance (reply if you need refernces) to confirm that in no Scriptural passage are any of these words defined in terms of sexual practices within the marital arrangement.
Enjoy the freedom.
Edited by - onacruse on 8 July 2002 13:3:21
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zenpunk
I never knew about the oral sex rule as a JW, because my prudish parents wouldn't even talk about sex in general, let alone specifics and I seemed to zone out during meetings. So I always thought it was fine - still do .
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bad_associashun
after 24 yrs, a person would probably be in complete confusion about what the wts regards as true porneia.
as far as being df'd, anything goes... ahhh, the joys
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Quotes
For a primer on the exciting ups-and-downs (pun intended) regarding WT's oral sex rules, check out:
http://quotes.jehovahswitnesses.com/oral.htm
Happy reading. And remember, don't let reading about oral sex "inflame your desires" because that would be wrong
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Perfection Seeker
I was told by a "JUDICIAL COMMITTEE" (ooooooooooohh) that oral sex was frowned upon by witnesses, because it bordered on unclean, but what you do behind your own private doors is your own business, but they wouldn't recommend it, or suggest it be topic of conversation out in service :-)
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WildTurkey
Hey I've been a Jw to long what is oral sex? Is it 900 numbers?
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Mac
Wild Turkey,
No, I believe it's only 69 numbers!