Great topic.
nativenyr23, I like your point especially (I think all the points are great, larc's idea of a children's playroom should be common sense, and good to see you again TR), because I often felt the same way about women giving talks. I've been in some congregations where the "men taking the lead" are so inarticulate, and where the women were pretty smart, that it seemed to me it would make more sense for women to handle "real" talks, since people might actually like their style better. I always figured that since "men take the lead before God", that the only thing that a brother should do that a sister shouldn't is offer a prayer for the congregation. I couldn't understand why all the responsibility had to go to men, they weren't any more "holy" than women, in fact women do most of the preaching anyway. I guess the whole idea of having women give "counsel" from the platform to brothers is too much for some people.