Hehe, SYN,
YESZzzz, I know..... ;)
by Beans 27 Replies latest social relationships
Hehe, SYN,
YESZzzz, I know..... ;)
My views have always been liberal...since I was a young teen I have felt that whatever consenting adults do is their business.
My sexual practices were always very conservative, mainly because I thought God wanted it that way.
Now, my sexual practices are much more liberal...to say the least. I am now able to practice what I have always believed...that whatever consenting adults do is their business.
Richard
So true Richard..AKA Skeptic.. I fail to see how a religion is ever given the right to delve into the goings on in peoples bedrooms.. each to their own and ENJOY it guilt free! :)
Apostates are better in bed!
Ain't that the truth!!!?
My JW husband raped me. I divorced him. Had a fling...stupid fling...but hey, I was rebelling. Got rid of him and now I'm remarried (wasn't allowed to do that, as someone else mentioned above) to an amazing lover.
<--- This girl can't get enough
A couple of years after I got kicked out, I have to admit I had quite a few guys. I still had the "worlds going to pass away any minute " attiude. So I thought I might as well have as much fun as possible. I then married a few years later to a guy. Had a hell marriage with him for five years. He was a drunk and wouldn't work. At the time I thought it was what I deserved. I stayed faithful to him, but eventually I left him for good. I grew up. Now I am happily married and faithful to a wonderful"worldly " man.
I actually did all that stuff before I became a witness. But although I am in a traditional marriage, I am much more accepting of sexuality in general.
It's awkward trying to relay this to my teenage kids, without giving them permission. I do believe that premarital sex is VERY IMPORTANT! I mean, REALLY! Also, all the gays and lesbians I know are the nicest, well-balanced, spiritual friends in my life. I still don't know how to reconcile this with my general respect for the bible, but I've decided to give up on reconciliation. Too much mind-f*cking.
Dinky
Well Dinky, if it is any consolation I have the same dilema you spoke of. I notice that some gays/lesbians seem to be kind caring people. The kind of people that do not deserve the hate that is generated in some, from religion and public beliefs. Yet I believe that life style to be difficult to say the least and would not recommend it to my children as I would not recommend promiscuity. Yet I recognize that having some experience in these matters would help one to choose a mate intelligently.
I have been promiscous "just a little you understand" he he- and it did help me finally find the right kind of person to marry.
If anyone here comes up with a way to reconcile these issues Please! let us know.
I've always been willing to try new things....
mmm well that was very informative. Seems like this is your favourite subject.