I Don't Get It!

by John Aquila 53 Replies latest jw experiences

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  campaign of hate

  It's a no brainer.

  Pros of younger girl:

  • Pretty accessory when you go to conventions.
  • has more youth in them.

  Cons of younger girl:

  • Inexperienced in bed.
  • Probably went straight from home, and has no idea how to do anything
  • Expects the man to work his arse off to provide nice things for her
  • She doesn't work, but wants to pioneer with her friends
  • Probably can't look after herself very well
  • Hounds the husband to do more in the congregation and ministry, to become elder and pioneer, whilst wanting to maintain her high level of living.
  • Becomes dissatisfied when husband can't deliver everything she wants.
  • Stress leads to sex life being sh*t
  • Gets jealous when husband starts looking at other woman. He's only human right?
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  KateWild

  Well I think guys in general like older women. I am divorced and 41 yrs now and dating in the outside world. It's been fun and good experience. One of these experiences is that I get a lot of interest from guys in their 20's. Personally it's a big turn off for me and I did date one guy that was in his late 20's.

  They seem to want stable and mature women instead of girls their age to support, and maintain their looks, hair extensions, nails, fake tan etc.

  I also agree with another poster, some of these JWs might have mummy issues.

  Kate xx
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  WingCommander

  I had just turned 21 when I met my wife who was 36. Now I'm soon 36, and my wife is 52. Today is our 12th wedding anniversary, and 15 years together. We have an 11 yr old son. By 21, I was already fed up with stuck-up, high maintenance girls my age, or even a few years older. They wanted to be treated like Princesses and spoiled, all the while being totally lame in bed and barely contributing financially to the relationship. That crap got old, QUICK.
  
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  TheWonderofYou

  Gratulations Wingcommander,

  We had this year our 25th anniversery.
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  Vidiot

  My wife's a couple years older than me (not that she looks it).

  My experience was such that the hotties my age - more often than not - didn't think I was good enough for them (or their parents liked me too much; a f**king death sentence for a guy in his early 20s).
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  Bonsai

  I went to Mexico more than once to see if the fields were ripe for the harvest. They were! The country girls are the best. They love their momma, work hard and can find joy in the simple, uncomplicated things in life. I met a nice one but she scared me off with all her talk of wanting kids (always in the plural form). Alas, I wasn't ready yet.
  
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  FayeDunaway

  John, also from your other stories, based on the superficial types of women in congregations near you, what young man WOULDNT want an older, less annoying 100% into-herself woman?
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  suavojr

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  titch

  If I might add my "two cents" here. If that's who he is attracted to, emotionally, physically, etc. then that's who he is attracted to. If his orientation is to an older female, then that's what his orientation is. Who are we to judge? Best Regards, everyone.

  Titch
  
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  John Aquila

  Bonsai

  I went to Mexico more than once to see if the fields were ripe for the harvest. They were! The country girls are the best. They love their momma, work hard and can find joy in the simple, uncomplicated things in life. I met a nice one but she scared me off with all her talk of wanting kids (always in the plural form). Alas, I wasn't

  ready yet.

  That’s exactly the culture and you cannot change it. “ALL” the girls –NO EXCEPTIONS- want lots and lots of children. If you don’t comply you will hear those famous words;

  (Genesis 30:1) . . .When Rachel came to see that she had borne nothing to Jacob, Rachel got jealous of her sister and began to say to Jacob: “Give me children or otherwise I shall be a dead woman.”

  And you will never smile again.

  FayeDunaway

  John, also from your other stories, based on the superficial types of women in congregations near you, what young man WOULDNT want an older, less annoying 100% into-herself woman?

  I totally agree.

  titch

  If I might add my "two cents" here. If that's who he is attracted to, emotionally, physically, etc. then that's who he is attracted to. If his orientation is to an older female, then that's what his orientation is. Who are we to judge?

  You’re right, who are we to judge, they are the ones that decided they wanted to live together.