This phrase I heard again at the weekend when a diehard dub was discussing his non believing, but much loved son. "It is just that..... [insert any excuse here]
It is something that they all say about us, yet nothing could be further from the truth. If I knew it was right , that it was the only organization that could save me from an imminent horrible death and deliver instead "eternal life in paradise" then nothing would stop me following it. I would be a fool not to. ... The reason that I don't is because I am convinced that it is not right, that it leads nowhere and deludes the followers with false hopes.
Why do they think that we love it really? I suspect it is a comfort to them, they love to hope that one day before the end we will rejoin them in "God's service". They are, after all, mainly decent people who do not want their family to die. They are allowed to keep thinking this because we do not always push the arguments when we see them.
We know that it is pointless trying to debate logically with an ideologue who will not listen. For example, when they point to the latest terrorist atrocity as a sure sign that we are nearing the end , we know that it is no good pointing out that Victorian Britain was plagued by terrorist actions from Fenians and Latvian Anarchists ,among others - to say nothing of the Gunpowder Plot in 1605 ...........
Instead of argueing, and turning a pleasant meal into a heated debate, it is better to murmur something non committal and try to change the subject. Sadly, we do not have freedom of speech.
Faithful Witnesses interpret this as acquiescence on our part and they are happy that they have planted "another seed of truth".....c'est la vie