Breaking up is hard to do

by RubyTuesday 13 Replies latest social relationships

  • DakotaRed
    DakotaRed

    Sorry, LB, no party. At least, publicly. Since this is number three, they are old hat by now.

    Lew W

  • RubyTuesday
    RubyTuesday

    Dakota...Thanks for the good advice. I do need to look long and hard at the situation.I have to stop acting on my emotions.
    As for Mr.Right...there is no such person.
    As for the bus thing...I think I've been on too many bumpy bus rides in my life.It's time I do my own driving.
    Thanks for caring...I just might need to e-mail you..starting to think this is going to be a tough one.

  • LB
    LB

    Toughest part of living together is the urge to sleep together. The booty call. Even if you don't get those urges, he will. More complications. Lew is right on here. Living together means lots of complications. There is always going to be a little edge between you no matter now well things go today.

    Spliting the sheets and one or even both of you moving out really is for the best. If you both move you forfeit on the contract. I'm a landlord and when couples have split I've been very easy about them moving out. I've always felt it was better than having them stick around, throwing things and causing me even more repairs.

  • NYgirl
    NYgirl

    hi guys, I'm new here on the site. Just wanted to say a quick hello first.

    I'm currently living with my boyfriend after three years of dating. It's really tough because it's only been two months and things don't look good. But I would tell you as I may find myself doing to just suffer the financial consequences and move on.

    Regardless if you don't have to worry about him bringing someone home, when he isn't home, you'll still be wondering where he is and what's he's doing. I think those things are better left unknown. and at least if he's not there, you won't know what he's doing and who he's doing it with. I don't know about you, but that would really upset me, even though emotionally you seem to be over him.

    Breakups are hard, but in my opionion, it's better to sever all ties.....in hopes that new door open.

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