I can tell you from experience Mr. Seagull ( luv the name) , if it were not for ones like yourself I would not be free and happy today. I would be entrapped in the same misery that I had known my whole life. I am 35 yrs old and just a few weeks ago D/A myself. I wish I would have listened to someone along, long time ago. But now with the internet, a person can check things out in the privacy of their own home or a library, for those who are extreamly paranoid a family member might find out what they are looking at. My husband was the first to show me this site, my reaction was to avoid it , but I was too curious , there had been seeds of doubt planted in my head from a pro JW site. There were a couple of d/f people that would come in there and say things that had to make me wonder. I didnt act on what I heard at first, but when I was given the right time and circumstances I began to open my eyes. Don't stop planting the seeds of doubt in those poor JW minds. Think of it this way, ....you could be saving their lives,,,,,,, literally. Dede