by Q4U2002 12 Replies latest social family
Soooooo... Does anyone have any answers to my questions, which ultimately were the REASON I created the post????
"Should I encourage him to disassociate now, or let him wait? Should I just make myself uninvolved with this decision???
I am just so offended that a family that loves me so much, and WANTS me to marry their son/brother could be more concerned about frowns from fellow JWs than the feelings of their REAL family!!!!!
Please help!! Has anyone had a similar situation????"
Should I encourage him to disassociate now, or let him wait? Should I just make myself uninvolved with this decision???Most here are going to think that this is the tip of the iceberg in regards to your future with this man. This religion is huge in a persons life, it's all they knew and believed. Not at all like being a Catholic. No comparison....but
if you want a direct answer I'll say this. stay out of the decision completely. it may affect you BUT if he regrets DAing later and you helped him DA, well he will hold that against you.
If you think he's a hypocrit about this, well you are right. That part is correct and if you're willing to marry a hypocrit then that's your business.
Ditto
