Helping Others - Dubs on Charity

by Stephanus 15 Replies latest jw friends

  • Stephanus
    Stephanus

    On the back of the October 1, 1997 WT, there is a piece on charity Dub style. The title promises a lot, but sentence number 1 immediately qualifies the concept - Dub charity is for Dubs. The rest is a testimony by an un-named brother about congregational kindness shown him and his wife while she was dying and after her death.

    Two weeks before my wife's death, our circuit overseer paid us an encouraging visit. He even showed the slides that the congregation would see at the end of the week. We were able to listen to the meetings over the telephone - including the meetings for field service conducted by the circuit overseer. At one of these, he had all those present say "hello" as a group, to my wife. Thus, even though she was isolated physically, she never felt alone.

    I must say I'm touched! Imagine, that lady could have been left to peacefully rest as she got sicker, but the Dubs rang her up, even before field service to remind her that she's a Dub until her corpse is cold!

    Here is the title of the piece with the accompanying photo:

    This pic cracks me up. Don't you love the expression on the old bloke's face, and the clenched fists! He must know all about Dub "charity".

    I invite your captions or comments.

    Edited by - Stephanus on 10 September 2002 17:51:46

  • Valis
    Valis

    Ruddy JWs! I told you I wanted lupines!!!

    Sincerely,

    District Overbeer

  • searcher
    searcher

    And you recieve all this ABSOLUTELY FREE when you sign up for a FREE Bible study !

    searcher.

  • LuckyLucy
    LuckyLucy

    What are ya trying to pull mister!! I need teeth to eat those carrots.Why ..I ought to pop you one!(notice the old man has his hand in a fist)

  • imanaliento
    imanaliento

    encouragement ONLY 2 weeks before, can't be weighed down with heavy burdens ( or someone elses )

  • Stephanus
    Stephanus

    "Ah, the Dub relatives. Must be mortgage repayment time again!"

  • dsgal
    dsgal

    Where the hell have you guys been?All my wife got so far was a friggin' phone call.And why did you bring flowers?We need food!Guess I'd better call one of christendom's churches.I ought to give you a damn knuckle sandwich! And next time call first so I can take this damn curtain down and put up the real door!

  • Beck_Melbourne
    Beck_Melbourne

    Hey there Steph

    I still believe dubs vary from congregation to congregation, I have associated with many in my time...and when it came to death, funerals and things of this nature, I found the dubs in general to be quite compassionate. This of course is my experience with it, not everyone has the same experience.

    In my own situation, I remember sisters coming to my home for weeks after I lost my son, they did my housework, laundry, cooked meals etc. They never stayed long, they only did a few things and left again. I only vaguely remember it, my memories are still a bit cloudy from that time, but I do remember their kindness. The contributions towards the funeral costs were generous also, from witnesses all over the world.

    Yet, on the other hand, when a sister's teenage daughter died suddenly, we all did up a roster to help this sister, the usual household chores, a bit of shopping, some gardening etc...just to lighten her load. We rotated this roster system for quite a few weeks...my day was Wednesday. But to bring it all down, was another sister who accused us all of abusing the brotherhood...as she never received this sort of thing when she lost her child many years ago. So you just can't win. Dubs!!

    Beck

  • Stephanus
    Stephanus

    As one who's lost a child, I'm afraid I side with the whinger - I'd have been absolutely livid at any sign of favouritism in those circumstances. We were very well treated by our "evil Christendom" (tm) church at the time, so I have no such complaints, fortunately.

    It was actually the nasty taunting remarks at our door by an overly-zealous Dub lady just after my daughter's death that caused me to declare war on them - you might say it's basically why I'm here... On the plus side, a Dub came and did a few odd jobs for us after our daughter died, so there're good-uns and bad-uns. (Waiting for Comforter to berate me for my unfair intolerance of the Dubbies)

  • ozziepost
    ozziepost

    Where's the tie?

    Where's the tie?

    That dub guy's taken his tie off!!!!

    That's not legit, is it? Oh, he can say he's still got his business shirt on, but no tie??? Really!

    No, this is serious deception on the part of the WTS. Everone knows they never take their ties off! It wouldn't be acceptable dress otherwise, would it?

    Cheers, Ozzie

    Freedom means not having to wear a tie.

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