Swan, I'm so sorry to hear about your niece. Your post show's what a good person you are and that you have a good heart. I think if we act on what they would do, we wouldn't make that call, but I tend to agree with others here. I would call. Never let anyone or anything stop you from having the good heart that you have. Let us know how your phone call went and how you are doing, k?
{{{{{{{cyber hugs to you}}}}}}}}