Well it was just an idea. I must admit I was not relishing the idea of attending a meeting again. I do wonder though if there is any way to reach these people.
have you thought of going back to meetings?
by ballistic 20 Replies latest jw friends
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TTBoy
I'd rather be "trained/gang banged" by a bunch of AIDS riddin homosexuals who didn't use condoms in the process. (I do have gay friends - but you get my point).
TT
Edited by - TTBoy on 4 October 2002 16:55:19
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lv4fer
I don't think I could stomach it. And I'm sure I would open my big mouth and say something(I'm not disfellowshipped) that I shouldn't, after all the do encourage inciting one another to love and fine works! It's better if I stay away.
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Joyzabel
Ballistic,
that's a commendable thought you wanting to reach out to other df persons, but I agree with JT.
Get a hobby or take some classes at a university. It sounds like you want to be productive and help people, just find another way to do it.
Hugs,
j2bf
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DanTheMan
There is an interesting article on freeminds about why disf'd JW's are often the WT's most ardent defenders. They 'jilted lover syndrome'.
http://www.freeminds.org/psych/whyleave.htm
Interestingly, I sent an email out to a number of persons when I DA'd with a link to a website critical of JW's. Nobody responded to it except for one guy who was disf'd (I didn't know it when I sent the email). It was sad, he definitely fit the description of the disfellowshipped WT defender described in the above linked article to a T.
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ballistic
joy, thanks but I certainly not looking for something to fill my time such as another hobby!!!
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JT
gumby says:
I think if anyone does try it.......for the first couple of visits just be nice and listen.Leave out what you know for a while because this is what they are looking for in you.Let them know you are a nice guy that cares for them. This will do much more good than bringing up Silentlambs, the U.N., or any of the other smut you have on the dubs.......Take care
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excellent advice
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IronGland
I thought about it before I got cable, now I watch Comedy Central if I want a good laugh.
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ballistic
Iron, you cant use comedy central to fall asleep to though can you?