I am easing my way out, Crownboy. I don't go that often. I have a little schedule for when to miss meetings. My work and other non-JW family members make for plausible reasons to be missing during the week but Sunday is hard to avoid. I can phase out mentally during the public talk, but the WT study is a challenge. Actually, I do comment from time to time, a well-thought out one with a Bible basis that cannot be denied. I make the elders uncomfortable but there is nothing they can say.
I have started doing some volunteer work that is going to take up some more time and I am taking a class next semester to update my credentials. I am planning on going into teaching English to foreign-born adults. I have a knack for understanding foreign-accented English and can speak 4 languages as well besides ASL.
I'm glad that your parents won't completely abandon you, but it is always good to consider every possible eventuality.
Blondie