Mulan I can relate to that sister. I am overweight and when I pioneered in the late sixties and early 70s you were expected to wear panty hose no matter how friggin hot it was. I would come home at the end of the day and my legs were bleeding and this went on for several years. and then one day I said the hell with this. Jehovah doesn't except you to go out day after day in sweltering humid heat in Montreal to the point that your legs would bleed. So I throw away my panty hose bought a few pair of pantalons and voila the problem was solved and then I stopped pioneering. The committee was always on my case as one of the girls that I allowed to live with me was a real SDer and she always had some tale to tell the elders about me. She even lied to them about me. And she started picking on my sister, so I told her get out and don't ever come back and so she conjured up some lies to tell the elders and the elders believed it with out talk to me and wrote to the society and that night at the K H the brothers gave me a copy of the letter they sent to the Society. I went to the washroom to cry and the DO lived in our KH and he saw me crying and said what is wrong and I showed him the letter. And he said these are lies and immediately said to me stop crying and don't worry I will handle this. He knew every Thursday night after the meeting a gang of us went for pizza so he told me to go join my friends. Any way about 30 minutes later he and his wife came in the pizza parlor and he smiled at me and said remain tranquille. So I went home needless to say still very upset. As I knew this letter was going to the WTS. Anyway the next a.m. at the service arrangement at the KH the DO was coming up the stairs and I said to him wow you look terribly tired. He said he was up all night. And he said also not to worry I have intercepted the letter that the elders sent to the Society and everything is okay now. One of the elders was very unkind to me for several years. He picked on me at every oppourtunity he could. Anyway I had enought of there BS and said I am not going to let them remove me as I pioneer. But I myself will sent them a letter and tell them I no longer wish to be a pioneer. They begged and grovelled with me to continue in the pioneer work, but I said no I have had it. and my health is no longer any good. That was an excuse of course. I know they felt like an inch high because they had to answer for why now was this person stepping down. It was quite a fiasco to say the least. But I came out the victorious one. And they all looked like fools.
Orangefatcat