My gripe is they drain everything from you, physically, mentally, spiritually & financially and then, when they have squeezed all they can out of you, they drop you like a dead carcass. They only want to know you if you are pioneering, answering at all the meetings, selling loads of literature, have a good job and plenty of money, are of the right class (at least in the UK), grovel to the elders, gossip and inform on others, never speak your mind or question anything, ignore those who leave the WTBTS even if they are close family members, invite the CO for tea & cakes, pretend you don't like heavy metal or watch 18 movies, say how wonderful being a JW is etc etc.