Well, here is where I can now be accused of being phony. For those of you who read this and think I am as phony as this will sound...one of the most attractive women I have ever met had been hideously scarred from head to toe in a house fire.
Anybody who knows me knows I am very fussy about a lady's looks for what I find attractive. But what really draws me is her heart, her intellect and her soul. And I am very fussy about those.
I freely admit to being weird on this issue. I am probably the only male who can look through a Victoria's Secret catalog and not be impressed. Windrider tested me on that. I told her that the women were obviously beautiful, but their looks didn't interest me. And I didn't know why. So she had me point out any that interested me. I found one. She looked at the model and immediately told me why that lady's looks attracted me when the others didn't. She was right. Those who know me well enough will know why.
Englishman, maybe it is where you live. Different cities make a big difference.
Seattle doesn't have a lot of women, but most are quite good-looking.
Downtown Ottawa abounds with beautiful women. So many that employers had adopted a disgusting employment practice. Hiring only very competent but drop-dead gorgeous women. This practice is delibrate. I enjoy eyecandy as much as any man, but I don't think looks should be a hiring requirement for most jobs. Except for a few firms, this practice did not apply to men. The good old double standard at work again.
I lived in Carleton Place, Ontario. Full of really nice people as long as you didn't piss them off. I swear they had an Ugly convention there at one time and nobody went home. Both the men and women were ugly. The whole time I lived there, I only saw two beautiful women...and one of them was my wife. A co-worker who lived there confirmed this...he made a similar comment out of the blue.
Where I live now I call Ugly Central. If you lived here you would know why.
Richard, who is not as phony as this sounds class.
Edited by - Skeptic on 13 November 2002 17:51:37