Gumpy Said
"Just remember.......their are ALL kinds here.........mostly all nice people.If they aren't nice.....they don't usually last."
Hmmmmmm, wonder where I've heard that before..........
by yard dog 16 Replies latest jw experiences
Gumpy Said
"Just remember.......their are ALL kinds here.........mostly all nice people.If they aren't nice.....they don't usually last."
Hmmmmmm, wonder where I've heard that before..........
My problem seems to be loving other people. I keep a relatively good distance from anyone outside my immediate family and don't want things to be that way.
Welcome Yard dog.
I can relate to that! The more you socialise the easier it becomes to get involved with people again. Even now I still find it hard to just embrace anyone and I guess thats ok, get to know people first and then take time to decide which ones you would like to spend more time around.
You dont have to love bomb people in the real world like we did in the JW world so there's nothing wrong with keeping people at arms length for a while....took me time to appreciate that.
Welcome Yard Dog
It's good to have you with us. On this board, you definately won't be shunned, but you will be treated as Jehovah would expect any of His sheep to be treated.
KT
Welcome Yard Dog
I cant add much else but you will find what you need here. If you or your wife ever need to talk, my email is open, just drop me a line
Regards
kelps
Greetings yard dog and welcome to the forum. Always nice to have another one to share with. I just wanted to say that I think you're mistaken about one thing.
You've committed no crime my friend, but only sought out a life of your own. The real crime, and quite a shame, is that your family has distanced themselves from you and your children. Perhaps you still blame yourself and think leaving the borg was maybe not the thing to do all those years ago. Just remember we're all here to remind you otherwise and for all kinds of reasons. BTW, don't feel bad about all those youthful indiscretions...whatever doesn't kill you or land you in jail only makes you stronger..*LOL* Oh and where ya from? We have gatherings all the time, at which you and your family would be more than welcome, and most definitely be made to feel like you had just gained back an extended family, but ten fold. Welcome aagain!It breaks my heart to see my children punished for my crimes
Sincerely,
District Overbeer
It is people like yourself Yard Dog that made me leave. And it's people like yourself that make me know that I was right for doing so.
Bless you
*muah*
Hello YardDog- good to have another lost sheep found
Jw's seem to forget that there is a story attached to every 'ex'
Genuine hurt and feelings are assumed missing, but at least you can share them with us and work through them all.