<------ Is thinking happy thoughts for you at this very moment.
<-------concentrating as I attempt to send positive energy your way
*muah*
She's gonna be locked up!
by Yerusalyim 15 Replies latest watchtower beliefs
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LB
I'm NOT saying we're going to patch things up, but I haven't filed for divorce yet either. We'll just wait and see what happens.
I'm afraid you have the sounds of someone that's going to get screwed over again. Mega saw this too in his message I think. I also urge you not to let her back into your family. I honestly would not have done a thing for her. Be careful, you'll get hurt bigtime.
Edited by - LB on 4 December 2002 12:50:39
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LyinEyes
I have been waiting to hear this Yer, hoping that she would get the help that she so desperatly needs. I was so afraid something bad might happen to her ,and that would tear you family up.
I know a bit about this mental illness and it is very painful ,for all parties involved. I totally understand that you may not know where to go when she gets better, but I like your attitude to wait and see. It could be months before you see her well again.
You really seem like a good hearted husband ,even with all she has put you thru and herself, and the rest of the family. I think whatever happens with your family will turn out good for all of you, if you make the choices when she is more sound in mind.
By standing up to her and saying what you will and will not allow her to do to your family, will hit her hard and make her want to get better, it will shock her to her senses. Even if you decide to divorce , you will feel you helped someone you love or at least care about deeply, get over a very bad place , and you will not regret doing all you could to help her.
Keep us informed Yer, and I am so glad she is going to get some help and meds to get her back on track.
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Valis
Yeru...greetings sir, always nice to see you rear your ugly head..*LOL* I was jsut going to say that I wish the best for you...oh and don't let the crazy beyatch back into the house...even if they let her out of Bedlam. Just remember that answers to why and real solutions are two different things. In a situation like this it might be easy to confuse the two where she assumes that everything will be peachy after being released (i.e. an answer to her behavior and a solution to her problem), whereas you will most probably still have many "why's" to be answered and need a solution that meets your familty needs. Be strong and do the right thing for the kiddies. Crazy women, or men in the reverse case, are not worth dealing with over and over and over again. Leads to the same old shit, just a different page on the calendar. Hope you had a good Thanksgiving and will have an even better Xmas.
Sincerely,
District Overbeer
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Yerusalyim
Well, I'm too much of a softy to have left her out there in the middle of a break down. She goes to hospital tomorrow. NOOO PROMISES. And as if the Bi-Polar ain't bad enough, she's a multiple personality too (I think a lot of ya knew that already).
Nope, I can't blame the WT on her being so screwed up in the head, that happened before she went into the BORG. Several of her brothers, and cousins, as well as one sister molested her from before age 3. In fact the current abuse situation within the WT is why she no longer attends meetings.
Waiting, give me a holler via email please.
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Tinkerbell4125
Yerusalyim, goodness, I didn't know the extent of her illness! I'm so sorry! I'm sorry that she had to endure all that during her childhood and I wonder if all her mental illnesses is due to what she went through as a child. So sad.
If I'm not being too personal, was she harming the children? Was she being faithful to you? What exactly was going on with her that has caused her to end up in the hospital again?
I do hope she get's the help that she needs! My first and foremost concern would be to protect your children though. Make sure that their life can be as normal as possible!
Did you get my email? I sent ya one!
Hang in there buddy! Keep us posted!
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