I just thought I would mention this on the off chance they might be lurking here. The two quotes are
(1)Vincent Toole ="I've never heard of the term 'theocratic warfare'"
Oh man you are so full of shit you wouldn't would t know the truth if it hit you in the face. Unbelievable that those words even left your mouth.
(2) Terrence Obrien "people are free to leave or become inactive without being viewed negatively"
Speaking from personal experience I had people tell me they were deleting me off their face book because I was no longer going to meetings. BTW I never told them the reason why I left. I was made to feel so uncomfortable and not welcomed by ones I considered my friends that I was literally pushed out. I've had others walk straight past me on the street and I'm not even DFed. Arse holes.