disfellowshiped meeting

desy2477

When I for my hearing where I had to tell the elders what I had been up to, they asked real personal questions such as Where did you do it?, Did you go down on him?, Were you drunk?, And the big one did you use any toys or VEGETABLES as sex tools? Now I don't know about everyone elses disfellowshiping meetings but did this happen for you? There were also 5 elders there and because I was only 19 and the guy I slept with (which I am happy to say we are still together 5yrs later) was my first I told them everything. I am sure they all got off on it.

Anyway has anyone experienced similar? Would love to hear

Edited by - desy2477 on 11 December 2002 0:0:58

kelpie

Hi Desy!!!!!!!

Welcome another fellow Aussie..... There are quiet a few in Melbourn. Beck_from_Melbourne is one of them and a very nice lady indeed.

I am organising a "get together" in March, being held in sydney for all ex jw's... I know there is a couple of cars coming up from Melbourne. Would love it if you could attend.

Regards Kelps (from the canberra class)

Beck_Melbourne

OHMYGOD Desy...I can't believe the elders asked such personal questions. I'm so glad I DA myself rather then being subjected to questions like that.

So anyway...were there any vegetables and toys?? LOL

~Beck~

Mac

Kelps,

Is canbera like "can a' beer"?

mac, of the if it is i like that class, class

kelpie

you bring the beer and ill provide the kangaroo mac

Big Tex

G'day desy!

I'm sorry you had to go through that. You didn't deserve it. It's a sick situation when a bunch of repressed and bent control freaks get their jollies by bullying you into answering some rather perverse questions. (Vegetables? Or Vegemite?

onacruse

desy, my first wife got involved with an elder from another congregation. So there were 2 JCs, one for her (in our cong, 3 elders) and one for him (in his cong, 5 elders). There were some VERY explicit questions put forth, e.g. "One of the pieces of evidence is that there was red lipstick on a pair of his pants. Was erotic sex involved? (read "oral", duh).

I couldn't believe what I saw in the body language of those elders...they were literally leaning forward in their seats as if watching a porn movie.

Pathetic beyond words.

Craig

desy2477

It was one of the most degrading times in my life. But I am really glad that I found this site it really helps to talk about things and especially to people that can understand.

Utopian_Raindrops

When my exhusband cheated on me....not only did his elders want every detail....but My Elders(we were seperated) wanted a letter from him explaning what he did that made it ADULTRY!!

Told me they needed to keep the cong clean.....according to them with out the letter I could not remarry!!!

I couldn't believe this and neather could my ex....he wrote a letter...but still didn't pack it with details like they wanted. They had even wanted the womans name!! Which he did not include!

After I gave them the letter they looked at me...one rolled his eyes and said...ok...that will have to do!

It was realy shocking...because you would think a guy would know if he commited adultry or not!**sheesh**

well that's my little story...bye bye 4 now

agape,

Utopian_Raindrops

BLISSISIGNORANCE

hi desy. welcome to the most supportive x-jw place on earth. all of us here can relate to eachother some way. we all share something and it feels good to exchange opinions. i got df 4 years ago for slander, all set up and not true. false witnesses etc. the elders get off on any power game and i've met many elders that i reckon are pervs. alot of jws are sexually hung up and the elders are the worst. sex is such a taboo in the borg that it's a big focus point for so many of them. what kind of people want to get so into the personal details of others??????????? the jws are sexual freaks and that's why there are so many protected pedos there. but stick around and look forward to chatting one day. cheers matey.

bliss

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