Hi LyinEyes,
Bravo for wanting to improve your health! I have an abundance of information about losing weight, as I've lost 50 pounds in the past 6 months.
However, I'm putting it all in a small book that I'm going to self-publish and distribute for cost of printing (yuck that sounds like a JW term). However I'm still in the process of writing and editing it.
I'd dieted and lost and gained for decades and when I finally hit on The Formula (for me at least), it was the easiest thing I've ever done.
Sorry, I'm not giving you all the info now, but I'll tell you the mainstay of the program. It's all based on the old saw: Breakfast like a king, lunch like a peasant, and dinner like a pauper.
I started having hearty, substantial breakfasts, but wise ones: Oatmeal with a cup of milk and a cup of blueberries. Ditto for lunch, fish and vegetables. I made my own versions of favorite foods (pumpkin pie, apple cobbler, etc.) with Splenda and low fat. Many say be sure to eat breakfast, but don't emphasize eating ENOUGH of it and then following it up with plenty of healthful food during the day. Otherwise your body will shift chemistry, and not give up the fat, sensing a starvation.
My "formula" for losing 50 pounds in 6 (really five) months was this calorie distribution: 400 (breakfast); 100 (snack); 400 (lunch): 100 snack; 200 dinner.
There's a lot more of the rationale behind it, but that's the main thing. Oh! And I ate within 1/2 hour of waking to get my metabolism going, ate preemptorily all day at the right times, and started walking, etc. When hunger has no chance to build up during the day, it's amazing how low the appetite stays and how little satisfies one in the evening. Satiety is the main feature.
I ate about 85% of my calories by 5:00, BEFORE dinner. I stayed at about 1200-1300 calories, but by eating them earlier in the day, i think it made me lose faster.
But you have to eat wise foods (I recommend the book Volumetrics by Barbara Rolls), foods that satisfy you and stay with you a while. After all two pieces of toast with butter would equal 400 calories but not do much for satiety. Lots of vegetables, soups, fruits, some meat and fish, etc. Be sure to add some healthy fat (canola oil, maybe a teaspoon) with each meal so you can absorb fat-soluble vitamins.
This BKWLP (Breakfast like a king weight loss plan) is very satisfying, healthy, and easy to stay on or get back on. When the book is ready (it will only be about 60 or 70 pages with recipes, etc.), I'll put a notice on the board. I think I'll treat it like shareware, you pay S&H, and then just contribute what it's worth to you. At least at first. That's still in the planning stages.
Good luck.
Pat