I have a comment and a question for you Tex.
If you are DFed 9 years, maybe this guy wants to talk to you because he heard about your "apostate" viewpoints. Maybe he is calling unofficially because he has concerns himself and is going through a crisis of conscience of his own. Is that a possibility? Maybe not. For what it's worth.
Now for my question. Forgive my ignorance, but what does the term "Cheese Cracker Men" mean in reference to the elders? I'm not familiar with the term, but it sounds good!
Tammy