by nanane 19 Replies latest social relationships
Hi,
How are you everybody?
I have a little problem.For me it's a big problem because I'm in love with a jw and he love me too.
I would like know if the jw have a rules for love (teenagers)?
You know? not girlfriend before married ect ect
We are 16years old..
and I would like know what can I do?
thank you
xxx
friendly
anne
I am tired of this crap,
any who..... http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/forum/thread.aspx?id=16791&site=3&page=2
Edited by - notperfectyet on 18 January 2003 1:6:1
nanane
The rule is no JW is allowed to even date a non-JW under penalty of excommunication (they call it disfellowship). My advice is to avoid him because if he does end up dating your body that means one of two things: either he's in a helluva lot of trouble in ways you cannot imagine (being disfellowshipped means among other things no JW even family members are allowed to talk to him) or he's being two-faced. And if he's that duplicitous do you really want a relationship with someone like that?
RUN! DO NOT PASS GO. DO NOT COLLECT $200. RUN AND DON'T LOOK BACK!!!!
Hi Nanane,
Welcome to the board, and yes, JWs do have lots of rules about dating. The thread that notperfectyet gave you is one my daughter started, who also had a JW boyfriend. You will get lots of good advise on this board. Try doing a search using the words boyfriend or girlfriend as a topic (use the search feature under the castle on the homepage of this forum). Yes, my daughter and her boyfriend did breakup, because it just couldn't work.
email me if you want.
oh, and have a look at this, but hopefully you aren't this serious about each other.
http://members.aol.com/beyondjw/inlove.htm
concerned mama
Edited by - concerned mama on 18 January 2003 1:21:42
Hi thank you everybody for your answer.
First I dont want than my friend have a problem cause of me....
I believe it's better to forget it no?
The rules of JW is don't have a date before what?
So thank you
xx
Nanane
Please read this thread...look past the catholic stuff and apply the advice given to your own case..welcome to the board.
http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/forum/thread.aspx?id=44232&site=3
Sincerely,
District Overbeer
Nanane..... Are you French ? Is you dad's name : Bernard ?????
Hi,
First yes I talk only french and my english is very poor I'm sorry.
My dad is not Bernard why?
First, thank you for de link to another board but my prob is little different of course it's a topic: i love my friend jw and he love me a no jw... what can i do?
you answer to me : don't waste his life and I'm agree with this but my love is so strong! The other board help me for the rules(Sincerely, I don't have problem with the rules of JW) but do you think that it is better than we avoid ourselves(he and me?)
So you are my last help
Nananne
You are young. Therefore I will say, give it up. There are plenty of other men to fall in love with who will love you for you and not your religious faith. It will be a hard battle, and I don't think you have enough time and effort invested in this relationship in order for it to be worth your while to fight and try and make it work with this guy.
You are only 16...find another 16 year old who is more like you, and not in a fanatical cult.
In short you told me drop the love because you will still like and this time the religion will not be opposed to it..its which you want to say to me? So thank you for you help!
