Hold on for as long as it takes, its hard as Ive been there. Satan wants this for you, dont bow to he who would destroy you.
I am leaving my wife...
by fulano 26 Replies latest jw experiences
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SheilaM
Fulano:
True love does exist, you just have to know what your looking for. As for a psychological look at your situation, you are moving too fast and furious. You have made some life altering changes and frankly what you've been smoking isn't helping. A good shrink will tell you not to make any changes for at least a year, and also if you don't think your in love with the other girl why are you in such a hurry to sever ties?
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fulano
Thanks, I know I am doing crazy things but I think its the fact that I start to live now you know, so I am in a rush.
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SheilaM
Fulano:
Sometimes one can get "into a rush to get nowhere fast" ya know. The world is not going to end, armageddon is not around the corner. I understand the need, the want to experience the freedom. Just please don't imprison yourself in a world that was created by hurried and foolish decisions
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Ravyn
Dear Fulano,
I met my husband 6 months after I left JWs, and I was not even thinking about a committment. I had fun for about 6 months, one nighters and even dated married men. I hope I sent them back to their wives--I think I did, I was more of the marriage counsellor type whore--if you know what I mean...but it was valuable experience for me--thank goodness I was careful and did not catch a disease. But really at the time that would not have even mattered. I just lost eternal life in paradise---what else was there? So I know where you are coming from. I still have some fond memories of those times and I refuse to feel guilty for any of it. I almost did not even date my husband when I met him because I knew he was the committment type and I didn't want it at all. But he wore me down, and I came back around to reality and we have been together now for 6 yrs. But I understand I really do. Just be careful--just becoz now you only want a little fun does not mean you will feel that way in 6 months or a yr.
Ravyn
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JT
2001 smoking everything that planet earth offers, and now in love with a girl for a couple of months. I feel sad
I can't think of a better way to have clear thinking when making major decisions than the above= smile
Hey man just make sure the "DOPE" AIN'T GOT YOU CONFUSED
JUST MY 2
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Guest 77
Fulano, do you think that someone like myself who's been married 40 years can give you a few suggestions? If so, re-read the female posts. As a male, I too have been there.
Guest 77
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fulano
I read my original post from 11 yeras ago.
Despite all the good advices you gave me, I left my wife and I married the girl in 2004 and in september we will be married for 10 fine and happy years.
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LoisLane looking for Superman
Fulano , That's wonderful. Congratulations!
LoisLane
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jgnat
I take it you are no longer sad?